Thursday, September 23, 2010

We Are All Victims of Love


We Are All Victims of Love
And Love Is Our Victim
Angel Femia

Love is within our souls when we are borne but our minds are not cultivated, (grown in loving thought) therefore we can only give what we know and if we are not taught how to think loving thoughts we do not give the Love we have within.

To give Love takes usage of our minds. We must learn to think Love to give Love. Even when we do things like work, date, clean the house, cook, these actions are work but without loving thoughts while doing the actions Love is not part of the sinario.

Loving thoughts create the emotions we know as Love.

We are all victims of Love and Love is our victim until we realize that Love is something we are not borne knowing how to do, and begin to learn how to Love.

We as humans have always thought ourselves to be Loving because we are human but the truth is Animals Love more simply because they are pure in their thought. A great example of this is children. Animals have children and raise them. Then they let them go to live their own lives. We humans try to grasp at our children and keep them to ourselves. The hardest part of Love is learning to let go with Love and grace. There is nothing wrong with wanting our children around but we must also Love them, teach them to Love and let them move on to live their own lives, grow, make mistakes and Love others.

Another great example is in our world relationships are very hard to maintain. When it is time to let go we suffer and anguish at the very thought of goodbye. Even harder is realizing that our partner is most likely going to have another relationship given time and space. Knowing this we grasp even tighter.

Love is free and grasping is possession. We need to learn how to love and let go. I found that if I wish the best for those I let go of the suffering is lessened a great deal. If I ever want to have a true loving relationship, I must wish others especially the ones I love deeply to find the same.



We react to Love with instinct but unless we cultivate it and grow with it within our minds, (Loving thoughts), we are Love’s victims and Love is our victim.

Below is a song written by John Lennon
This piece says  it all

LOVE
Love is real
Real is Love
Love is feeling
Feeling Love
Love is wanting
To be Loved
Love is touch
Touch is love
Love is reaching
Reaching Love
Love is asking
To be Loved
Love is you
You and me
Love is knowing
We can be
Love is free
Free is Love
Love is living
Living Love
Love is needing
To be Loved